Several actions look similar and do very different things. Check this page before you click.
| Action | What it destroys | Reversible? |
|---|---|---|
| Withdraw a request | Nothing. Nothing was copied. | Yes, send it again |
| Decline a request | Nothing. Nothing was copied. | Yes, they can send it again |
| Cancel setup | Nothing. Setup never finished. | Yes, start again |
| Pause | Nothing. Stored copies and the reservation stay. | Yes, by the account that paused |
| Remove from backup (a folder) | That folder's copy and all its restore points on the destination | No |
| Remove connection | Every folder and every restore point on the destination, and the reservation | No |
| Delete a folder with Also delete the backup copies checked | The folder on your server and its backup copies | No |
| Unclaim or reset a server that hosts backups | Every backup that server hosts for others | No |
The files on your own server are never touched by any of these except deleting the folder itself.
Pause stops new backups running. Everything stored stays where it is and the reservation stays reserved. Both sides are told. Only the account that paused can resume it, except a pause HexOS made for space, which either side can resume and which resumes on its own when the space problem is fixed.
Pausing does not free space on the destination. To give the space back, the connection has to be removed.
Open the folder's menu and click Remove from backup, or uncheck it in Edit folders. HexOS names the folder and its restore points, and asks you to confirm "Delete the stored backup of N folder?".
The folder on your server stays. Its copy on the destination and every restore point for it are deleted permanently.
Info: If the destination server is offline, the deletion completes automatically when it reconnects.
Click Remove on the details view or Remove connection in the row menu on the Backups page. The dialog says "Removing this connection will stop all backups between this server and {name}" and "Backup data stored on {destination} will be permanently deleted, and your storage reservation will be removed."

Danger: One click confirms. There is no undo and no typed confirmation. Every folder and every restore point on the destination is deleted.
Danger: Either side can remove a connection. If you host a buddy's backup, you can delete it, and they are notified. If a buddy hosts yours, they can delete yours. An offsite copy is only as safe as the server holding it. Keep a second destination for anything irreplaceable.
If the other server is unreachable when you remove a connection, the deletion completes automatically when it reconnects.
When you delete a folder that is backed up, the delete dialog offers Also delete the backup copies stored on {names}.
Warning: Checking that box is the most complete deletion in HexOS. Nothing is left on either server.
Danger: Unclaiming or resetting a server removes every backup it hosts for other people. The unclaim dialog's "Pool data will not be affected" refers to the server's own files.
If you are going to unclaim, reset, rebuild, or sell a server that hosts backups:
Unclaiming your own server does not delete the backups it sent elsewhere. Those are kept as retained backups so a replacement server can restore from them. See Recover a failed server.
Warning: While a restore is running, do not remove the connection, remove the folder from the backup, or delete the folder. Wait for it to finish.
Restore points older than the retention window are removed at each backup. The window is set per connection in Schedule & Retention: 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month, or 3 months. Shortening it shows how many restore points would be removed and asks you to confirm.
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